Sunday, April 3, 2011

Setting A Good Example For Your Child

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I am never ceased to be amazed at how many parents these days simply ignore what is the single biggest factor in a child’s upbringing- Example. If you find yourself, for example, frequently shouting or even using bad language in front of your child, and struggle to keep them well behaved, then this problem is somewhat easily solved.

Now some parents will naturally struggle with this more than others, but setting a good example for their children to follow is often the most important thing they can do in regards to their mental development. As you would know, children frequently have a short attention span. And listening to a verbal instruction is also frequently forgotten or disregarded.

But, if your child frequently sees you doing what you want them to do, then this sinks into their minds far more effectively. If you are always polite and speak calmly with others, including them, then they begin to learn that this is normal and expected behavior. Same applies with sharing, accomplishing tasks in a timely manner, taking pride in your work, and your general composure. One way you can get your child actively involved is to get them to participate in a task you are already involved in. This shows them that what is good for you is also good for them.

Remember, a child spends the first couple of years of their life not knowing how to speak or understand speech. What they learn in this time is almost always what they observe. Whether you like it or not, you child will most likely grow up to be very similar to you. The way you act and the way you think. So the next time your child misbehaves, will you ask yourself “Am I doing or not doing this myself?”

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